vrcanaries Chapter 1609 Goddaughter in front of the church
Chapter 1609 Goddaughter in front of the church
Chen Chuan patted Caibao's back gently and comforted her, "Don't be afraid, daddy is here. Daddy will protect Baoer."
Caibao nodded vigorously: "Yes, I know Dad will come!"
Daddy said, she can trust no one, but mommy and daddy will definitely protect her!!
She always believed it!!
Dad came last night and the baby was so happy.
"Baby, Daddy wants to talk to you about what happened last night, okay?"
"Hmm..." I didn't really want to talk.
"Dad, can you help me analyze and summarize this?"
"Okay... baa."
The bright summer afternoon sun shines in through the snow-white window screens, and the air-conditioning in the room gently exhales coolness, making the scorching rays become submissive.
Caibao lay obediently in his father's arms and listened to him talk.
"Baoer, you're still young. Most adults won't listen to children's opinions, no matter if they're right or wrong."
Adults always think that children are young and immature, so they habitually make decisions for them, and children just need to be obedient.
This is what Zheng Shou did.
He wanted to help Caibao decide her future path, and decide when and how she would start.
But he forgot to ask whether the treasure was willing.
He imposed his ideas on Caibao in a self-righteous and for your own good way. If Caibao was an ordinary child, her reaction might not have been so strong.
Just like many children when they are young, they learn whatever their parents teach them. They are too young to have obvious preferences.
But treasure is different.
Ever since she was old enough to understand, Chen Chuan would explain and analyze everything concerning her, and then let her make her own decisions, regardless of whether they were right or wrong.
Yes, of course.
If she was wrong, he could cover for her, and Caibao could understand why she was wrong and would not make the same choice again.
He has always believed that it is better for people to be taught by things than by people themselves.
So Caibao is a child with a strong sense of independence. She doesn't like others telling her what to do, nor does she like others making decisions for her.
Especially last night, Zheng Shou ignored her wishes and forced her to stay in Zhangshu Village. Caibao was angry, furious and sad.
Her grandfather, whom she thought loved her dearly, treated her like this... He completely ignored her opinions and forcefully decided that she couldn't go home...
Caibao felt sad and betrayed...Grandpa obviously loved her so much and was the person she trusted the most, so she was willing to play with him everywhere and follow him without any worries.
But last night, Grandpa lied to her.
Chen Chuan hugged his daughter, patted her gently to comfort her, and told her: "Grandpa doesn't love you anymore, he just uses the wrong method."
"Grandpa felt Baoer should be independent, so he did that. Maybe Grandpa's behavior was wrong, but his heart for Baoer has not changed."
Caibao looked at his father: "Really?"
"Of course." Chen Chuan patted his daughter's back: "Bao'er, do you think Grandpa loves you?"
Caibao nodded without hesitation.
Of course she knew whether her grandfather loved her or not.
"Everyone has different ways of loving their children. Grandpa just used the wrong method last night."
If you say that, Caibao will feel much more comfortable.
She had never understood why her grandfather, who was so kind to her and loved her so much, treated her like that last night, but now that her father said this, she understood.
Suddenly, I felt much better.
Chen Chuan continued, "As for Fan Like and Fang Shiyou, they're not betraying you or disobeying you. Instead, they believe that if your decision conflicts with Grandpa's, then Grandpa is the adult and must be right, so they listen to him."
"It's not that you didn't do well, but in their eyes, adults are always more reliable than children."
Caibao understood that it was not the baby's fault, nor was it that the baby was not well behaved, it was just that they were thinking wrongly.
"Bao is super smart, Bao is right!"
"Yeah." He bent down and kissed his daughter's forehead. "There's nothing wrong with sticking to your own ideas. So, they are the ones who are wrong."
When it gets dark, Caibao just wants her dad. What's wrong with that? This is a child's nature and her habit.
The little guy's eyes were noticeably brighter and his smile became brighter.
"But Baoer did one thing wrong last night."
The little guy was unconvinced: "What's the matter?"
"When you realize that crying is useless and they don't listen to you, you shouldn't continue. You can pretend to listen to them and then secretly call Dad. When Dad knows, he will come to pick you up, right?"
Caibao blinked his big eyes, as if... yes...
At first she thought that if she made a little noise they would agree, and if they didn't, it must be because she hadn't made enough noise.
As a result, the quarrel grew bigger and bigger, and his temper and stubbornness also grew.
She was determined to make a scene, she had to make a scene! She had to make a scene until they were willing to send her home!
"Look, you cried so hard last night, rolled around in the dirt, and put in so much effort, but in the end you still didn't achieve your goal. Why not just see the situation clearly from the beginning, not confront them, and quietly ask Dad for help."
Caibao pouted his little mouth.
"Or, pretend to agree to Grandpa, then quietly find Fan Like or Huang Haohui and ask them to quietly bring you back."
If Caibao did this, Huang Haohui and Fan Like would definitely be willing to take her away. Chen Chuan still had some confidence in this.
"In short, there are many ways to solve the problem, Baoer, don't you think?"
Um...yes.
Caibao tilted his head and listened attentively.
"Being angry, throwing a tantrum, and crying are all normal. Not to mention children, even adults often lose control of their emotions, and there's nothing wrong with that. But after crying, you have to learn to think calmly, so that you can find a solution to the problem, right?"
"I believe Baoer will understand if he thinks about it carefully, right?"
"Hmm~~" Caibao understood.
"Baoer, you have to know that we will meet people who are good to us, and we will also meet bad people. If we meet a bad person, crying and making a fuss will be useless. What we have to do is calm down and find an opportunity to ask for help, understand?"
Caibao blinked his eyes, tilted his head, and thought about what his father said.
Chen Chuan believed that she could understand and think clearly.
Sure enough, after a while, Caibao asked him, "If you can't beat them, should you run away? If you can't run away, should you quietly look for your parents?"
Chen Chuan smiled: "If mom and dad are not around, you can also find other reliable people, you know? For example, the police uncle."
"No matter who you are facing, when crying doesn't work, you have to learn to ask for help. Do you understand?"