vrcanaries Chapter 1288 The Inevitable Conflict of Parents
Chapter 1288 The Inevitable Conflict of Parents
Ideals are always just ideals. The reality is, if you don’t let go, how can your children truly grow up and become independent?
Shen Xi felt mixed emotions.
Chen Chuan turned his head and looked at his treasure who was sleeping soundly on the crib. The little ball was sleeping sideways, looking very carefree.
"So, I hope she has the ability to protect herself, like you, and not be afraid of any danger."
If Caibao knew how to fight, she wouldn't have had such a large clump of hair pulled out by Xiangbao today, and she wouldn't have been injured.
He always believed that revenge after being hurt would still be a disadvantage.
Because you have been hurt, no matter how miserable others are, you are still hurt and cannot be changed.
The only solution is to not get hurt.
Therefore, if you want to obtain wealth and treasure, you must learn martial arts. It is imperative.
After listening to Chen Chuan's words, Shen Xi was silent for a long time.
half an hour-
"Didn't you say you wouldn't ask for the treasure? You wanted her to live her life as she pleases."
"Yes, I did."
"That……"
"I regret it."
Shen Xi: ...Are you going to regret it so righteously?
He looked at her seriously: "Because the premise of doing whatever you want is that you can protect yourself."
Without the ability to protect yourself, can you go anywhere you want?
Only when a person is strong enough, will the path she can take be wider and broader, and will she be fearless, especially for women.
This is not sexism, but there is a lot of malice in this world, beyond your imagination.
He has been a lawyer for many years and has seen the most evil in human nature. If he is kind to all people and things in this society, then, unless he is the chosen one with extremely good luck, it is really... hard to say what will happen.
"I've said before that kindness must have teeth, and force is the best teeth for treasure."
Shen Xi looked at him: "In the future, will you think that she still needs a certain level of education, the ability to support herself, and everything...what we think she needs?"
Chen Chuan was stunned for a moment. After a while, he smiled bitterly: "To be honest, you stumped me."
Yes, she is still young now, they don't think so yet, but when she grows up, will they think that she needs this and that, and force her to learn?
Is this following one's heart? Whose heart is this following?
The original intention of being a parent is always to do good for the children, but that original intention is your own, not your children's.
So the question is, the children are still young and immature, and the choices they make may be wrong. If they follow their will, they will just watch them go further and further down the wrong path. Can they... really just watch it?
He sighed and said, "I was too naive when I boasted so much. Raising a child is not that easy."
There is no parent who doesn't want their children to live a life of ease and happiness. However, there is no such thing as unconditional ease and happiness.
Seeing that her versatile husband was stumped by her question one day, Shen Xi couldn't help but reach out and slap him on the forehead: "Fool!"
He looked at her.
"If Caibao wants to learn martial arts, you can just ask her. If she wants to learn, how can it be considered that we are forcing her?" Shen Xi paused: "Do you think your daughter would not want to learn?"
Seeing the way her eyes lit up when she saw her mother competing with others, it would be strange if she didn't want to learn, she wanted to learn so badly.
If Shen Xi hadn't thought that she was too young and her bones were too tender and hadn't been pressing her down all the time, Caibao would have been able to jump up and learn, believe it or not?
It seems, that’s right.
He always presupposes that the choices made by children and their parents are opposite and contradictory.
What if what the children want and what their parents want them to have are the same result?
For example, Caibao is willing to learn martial arts because she wants to be able to protect herself.
For example, in the future she will not find studying a hardship.
Etc., etc.
Life is long, and we can always adjust our expectations and reach an agreement.
Chen Chuan sighed: "Such a simple thing, I can't figure it out."
Shen Xi felt that Chen Chuan, who was looking for trouble in this way, was quite adorable.
It's rare that Chen Chuan, who is omnipotent and always confident, would have such a helpless moment.
He was also willing to show his troubles and vulnerabilities in front of her. Thinking of this, her heart softened incredibly.
She likes Chen Chuan like this, she likes him very much.
She reached out and stroked his dark hair: "You are too concerned and confused. All you can think about is revenge for Caibao."
She came close to him and asked with a smile: "Tell me the truth, were you just thinking about how to teach Xiang Bao a lesson?"
Chen Chuan:......
"Am I that kind of person? Holding a grudge against a one-year-old."
"You are."
It was so righteous that Chen Chuan couldn't refute it.
"Okay, I'm very stingy, so don't offend me."
"What would happen if I offended you?"
"I will..." He threw her down and said, "I will torture you all night long! Even begging for mercy will be of no use."
Hahahaha, she wanted to laugh, but soon, the laugh turned into...
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It seems that Sister Shen is quite capable. After a whole night of torture, brother Chen Chuan's mood was obviously better the next day.
Even on Saturday, when Lu Jun brought Xiang Bao to his house, he unexpectedly did not have a cold face.
Shen Xi was speechless when he saw Caibao and Xiangbao playing together affectionately again.
You see, the adults were furious and concerned, and Lu Jun was frightened for a long time. But in the end, the children had already forgotten about it and had no grudges at all.
It was as if the two people who had fought to the death before never existed.
Xiangbao was a good boy today again, following behind Caibao and calling "Sister, sister" sweetly.
As soon as Caibao was happy, she took him to her square dance teammates, and then Xiangbao looked at Sister Caibao dancing among the aunties and clapped his hands happily.
"Oh~~ Sister, come on!! Oh~~ Sister, you're awesome!!"
He was shouting and clapping his hands, and his butt was squatting to the beat of the music, looking like a real illegitimate fan of Caibao.
Lu Jun covered his eyes because he couldn't bear to watch it. His son was too embarrassing.
Really, I don’t know why Xiang Bao is growing more and more crooked.
When he was a baby, he was well-behaved and gentle. Even though he was dark when he was born, he turned white later.
Xiang Bao looks very much like Wen Jing, and everyone thought that he would be gentle and refined like his mother. But who would have thought that the older he got, the more... he looked like Fan Like.
Character, character.
His temper is getting worse and worse, and he will fly into a rage if something doesn't go his way.
In the past, Lu Jun thought that he was still young and needed to be educated when he grew up. But ever since he took the initiative to provoke Sister Caibao to fight that day, he felt that the problem was very serious and had to be corrected.